E-Concussion

Don't do it!
I think it's not right for anyone to be the third party of someone else's relationship. It's not wrong to have a liking for someone but it's not right to try to break into someone else's relationship (no matter how good or bad the relationship is); and it's not right for friends abetting them. I would think they have a disrespect to the person's bf/gf, and also a disrespect to the person's choice.

Yes, we always say so what?! They are only bf/gf, and it's not wrong to go after someone who is not married, and one should pursue their own happiness but would you still say the same thing if this happen to you? I bet not. So why still do it? And why abet? Whatever will happen, will happen. Whatever will not happen, will not happen even with much efforts and encouragements. Too much encouragements lead to pinning too high a hope, and the disappointment from the reject will be greater. One should let nature take its course, and also to learn to take "no" as the final answer.

Copied from my friend's blog.

Shavia

abet:煽動